Monday, May 17, 2010
Blackmails!
Blackmails! Sure thing it's a very messed up everything in this world. If you can't convince someone then using blackmails is an effective way of persuading people to do something that they don't want in the first place. It can be made directly or indirectly. When it is used directly, it's simply telling it to someone without hesitation. An example of such is: "If you don't do what I want then I'll just tell everybody your biggest secret of your life." On the other hand, doing it indirectly means that a use of subtexts is in place. It's like saying thank you verbally but deep those words tells a different meaning.
There are lots of blackmails I've been accepting just when I started reopening my mind to the world. It's just so hard to accept this fact but I need to move on and make my life happy just like what my commitment with the Lord that I need to Live My Fourth. For as long as I remember my commitment, such blackmails are just mere dusts that needs to be wiped out. Anyway, it's already a part of life and being a part of it means you just have to live with it. Going back, blackmails are quite irritating if you would about it. Sense of judgement is needed whether to bite to this or not. What needs to judged lies on the question: Would you gain something or learn something if I would do something just to get rid of this blackmail?" Also, what would be my loss if I don't do it? what would be its impact to me? Such questions are needed just to gauge whether or not it's alright to let blackmail affect your decision.
Each of us has free will and thus use this to make your decisions wisely. Make no regrets on whatever you choose so don't put a blame on whoever or whatever if the outcomes will be bad. As for me, I won't regret my decision for not comin' on a certain event just for the sake of the "PAASANG" stuff. hahaha. I don't see any effects of the paasang stuff so why would I be affected with such? Teamwork can't only be measured in outings. Performance with what you do and how you deal with others is much appropriate guidelines for teamwork.
«GINPAO»
5/17/2010